You are good at wrestling crocodiles. And you took on a big one with this essay, and I was really caught up in it. Your daughter is one lucky girl to have such a dad who literally sees boundaries and knows how to observe them.
I've long maintained that a good portion of our society is not acquainted with their internal selves. Somewhere along the line they were told that it was a bad place to go and to never go there.
With voices like yours out there, maybe, just maybe there's a chance for them to meet themselves. I'm sure they'll cry.