The part of your story where your sweet daughter, Ana, died was most shocking. I am so sorry for your loss. Oh, my, no words.
This reading was most provocative, I found, as I read it I was thinking of one of my relationships that is currently falling by the wayside as well. And so you changed names, but those nuisance cracks forming are the issue in my view. And when they don't get addressed they grow wider. Maybe it was the distance, or the changes we all go through, but the pattern is recognizable.
Your story is universal in this regard.
Thank you, and I wish you peace.