Soooo enjoyed your no-holds-barred advice. However, I take issue with Lie#7. Your grandmother was a badass risk-taker. I would've enjoyed hearing you relate your nature to take risk and enjoy the fruits to her passing that along to you. By the time your grandma was telling the story, it was probably to say that Safety was all she wanted, fleeing war, and everything else. However! What got her to safety was her taking great risks, probably on a daily basis.

Just wanted to put my two cents in there, because you are very lucky to have her, and to have inherited all that spice!

Keep on, my friend.