I'm a Near Deather, having drowned in the ocean when I was 7 years old. The account is pinned to my profile. The reason I bring this up is that I have read, heard, and watched many other near deathers. Many of them, coherently and calmly, tell how they were given a life review. During this life review they saw their actions through the other person's perspective. Some of these moments revealed the soul's corruption through cruelty or other offenses against another. So, I wonder, is that the judgement, and is the pain we experience when we have been cruel the punishment?